when to back off

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I'm kinda having a problem. I'm committed to a man who is very experienced with women, however. i don't have any experiences with men. I've a problem in understanding how men think sometimes,i've read some books but still there are somethings that i still can't figure out.

My question is: How to know when a man needs his space?. Sometimes he just disappears for a whole day, Does that mean he needs his space, or he is waiting for me to call to know whether i care for him or not?
How am i supposed to react to this? shall i wait till he calls even if it's after a number of days? or he shall think that i don't love him??

Thank you very much

RomanceClass.com Advice
Every man is different but there are similarities.

I don't know enough about your BF to make a judgement.

What bothers me is that he seems to be playing games with you. Ask him what he is doing when he disappears on you. Be gentle but firm and try to find out what is going on in his mind.

Good communications is one of the best ways to strengthen a relationship. Give it a try.

Good luck! George

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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