Can't get over my Wife's Sister
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male
I meet my wife at 19 years old back then we were just friends. She had a sister that I ended up having sex with. This went on for a few weeks (it was the best sex). Five years later I ended up getting married to my friend the one I had sex with her sister. The problem I am having is that I am now 33 years old and my wifes sister lives next door. I have been having dreams of having sex with her and thining back when we use to have sex. I think she wants me to.
This could turn into very serious bad business.
Tell your wife, as gently as you can, how you feel about her sister.
Keep in mind that it isn't unusual for heavy crushes to develop at your age, but your's is more complicated.
Ask your wife for her assistance in dealing with these feelings. Go to a marriage counsellor if necessary.
I don't need to tell you how serious this is and you need all the help you can get from the one you love and trust most.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com