Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I have been with this guy for 6yrs and at first it felt so right i got the butterflies and everything after 3yrs of dating we had a child together and things started to go down hill from there. at the time we was living with his parents so we moved out. then we just started agruing about everything and i let him know then i was not happy anymore well i stayed with him for the childs sake and then he thought having another baby would help the relationship. so we now have 2 kids, 3yrs old and 8 months old and the relationship is still falling apart. i have told him i would like my space and that i have feeling for another guy. but he does not want to let the relationship end i am his first love and he is mine but i know when im not happy, he states that he is happy and if i want to leave i will not get the kids and that is just keeping me with him more and i feel so unhappy. please can someone help me out with this. i want to be with someone else but i don't want to loose my kids. Advice
Go to a lawyer and get advice.

If you can't afford a lawyer then see if there is a Legal Aid available locally. It will be in the white pages under Legal Aid.

Good luck! George

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