EVERYTHING MAKES ME JEALOUS
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I HAVING PROBLEMS WITH MY BF RIGHT NOW CAUSE HE SAYS I GET JEALOUS OVER EVERYTHING. I ADMIT I DO. FOR EXAMPLE, I KNOW HE WATCHES PORN. HOWEVER, I GET MAD CUZ I NOTICED HE DOES IT AFTER WE HANG OUT. EVERYTIME WE GO OUT HE KEEPS LOOKING AT THE OTHER GIRLS FRONTS AND BACKS. THE PROBLEM IS WHEN WE GO OUT TO EAT AND THERE'S A PRETTY GIRL CLOSE BY. HE JUST KEEPS WATCHING HER. HE ALWAYS PRETENDS HE'S NOT THOUGH. EVERYTIME THERE'S SEX OR SEXY WOMEN ON TV I PUT MY HANDS OVER HIS EYES. I GET JEOLOUS WHEN MY COUSIN, THE GIRL HE REALLY LIKED BEFORE ME HANGS AROUND HIM. I GET MAD WHEN HE RATHER KEEP PICS IN HIS PHONE OF A GIRL WHO I KNEW HE LIKED OR TEXT HER ON MYSPACE AND NOT ME.I GET JEALOUS WHEN I'M AROUND HIM IN HIS ROOM, HE DOES STUFF ON HIS COMPUTER AND FORGET I'M EVEN THERE. WHAT SHOULD I DO TO CALM MYSELF DOWN??? WE HAVE TALKED BUT I STILL GET JEALOUS
Sounds like you have good reason to get jealous.
Of course, jealousy can be a terrible burden on yourself as well as the other person. You have a large number of topics where you get jealous. Maybe you compromise with him and thereby reduce your jealousy.
Whenever the jealous feelings come over you, tell them to go away and stop bothering you. Tell them that your bf loves you and you have nothing to worry about.
If he tells you he is just "people watching," tell him you will believe him when he starts looking at guys too. Otherwise it's just "girl watching."
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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