I want my ex back
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
i had an affair with this guy for about three months. we broke up because of the things i said to him when i got angry. But then I understood my mistakes and asked him to forgive, but he told me that he wanted a break up. so we stayed as friend for some times. I know he still cares for me. When i need help he is always there for me. Bur last week i found out that there is a girl in his mind. I asked him about it but he told me that she is just a friend and not more than that. I think he is hiding some thing from me. I know he is in love with her. But he doesnt want to tell that to me. now he stopped calling me. But I really want him back. What am i to do now?
You don't know that he loves her except by guessing.
Give him a call and ask him out for dinner as a friend. Spend the time showing him how you have matured and that you are no longer an angry person. Share information with him, share feelings with him, and be affectionate (give him compliments, smile, etc.) and this will help rebuild the trust that is so important to a good relationship.
Tell him you are still interested in him and if he ever wants to try it again you will wait for a while. This will give him something to think about.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com