i want to be more than friends
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
there is this girl i have known for three years and well i was instantly in love with her when i met her. and my plan to being with this girl was to get the friendship closer because i believe the better the friendship the better the relationship. any way i recently asked her out and she said that we have been friends far too long and she doesn't want the friendship to die.and i cant get her out of my head and all i want is to be with her. please are there any tips you can give me to leting her know how i feel so that maybe she will consider it
Try to improve your relationship using these three approaches:
sharing information (communication), sharing feelings (compassion), and giving compliments and hugs (affection). She will feel closer to you and be more likely to want to be your GF.
Also, ask her to go out on a data "as a friend." This is different than going out but it is a step in that direction.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com