So cute, but does he like me?
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Okay, so there's this guy- he's super hot and everybody wants him. Then there's me who's pretty, smart, and well awesome, but i've never had a boyfriend. We never really talk at school becuase we have no classes together, but we occasionally smile at each other and i totally catch him checking me out. Outside of school we e-mail each other and he just asked me (via e-mail b/c like i said we never speak)if i was going out with somebody who i've been friends with for forever and i told him no. His family is one of the nicest i've ever met (adopted two kids from SE Asia and are taking care of another whose mom is in a coma)...but anyways...i'm obsessing over this guy and am so incredibly shy and don't know if he likes me back...?????
Work on your shyness, then you will be even more awesome!
Seriously, shyness is a character trait that you should work to master as soon as possible. It makes you and others uncomfortable.
Now, here's what to do: send him an email and ask him if he has a girlfriend and tell him you are asking hime because you like him. That shouldn't be too hard to do via e-mail. Ask him if he wants to hang out or go out with you.
You have nothing to lose.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com