Is he just flirting for fun or is he serious?

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Sorry this will be a little long!
Okay I have liked this person *Jordan since November when I was put next to him for my assigned seat in class. The first time i talked to him I knew I liked him. He just moved to my school in the summer. He is a sophomore and i am a freshman. But he is only 7-8 months older than me. Evertime im in that class he pokes me, gently pulls my hair and pinches(softly) me. Everytime he does that I look at him and smile. I used to wear glasses until a couple of days ago ans he took my glasses case out of my backpack(i didnt know until he brought it to my attention)and asked me if he could clean me glasses. I told him that I was getting contacts the next day. He replied: ohh, i guess i'll have to get used to you without glasses. You look smart whith them. (I guess most people would call me smart. i dont wear my glasses all the time.)I took it as a complement and said thank you. The part when he said i looked smart with them he said it softly. It was also my birthay that day he told me that if he knew it was my birthday, he would have made me a nicer card then my friend(her's would be hard to beat) and would have brought me flowers. I cant remember how i replied. Every time i talk to him I get "happy chills" if that makes since. I think about him everyday. He says hi to me in the hallway a lot. Like the other day he said hi "Deirtra"(inside joke me real name is Deirdre) and he knows that i hate to be called that. Before and after he said that it seems his friends where looking at me I couldnt really tell i didnt have corrective lenses on. One time I wore these shorts that i bought already rolled up they are regular denim shorts but where a little short. He told me that i was violating the dresscode(i wasnt) and then asked me who i was trying to get to notice me. When I said nobody i think i was blushing. When he was telling my friend (a guy) about this violation, i slapped him on the arm. I didnt think it was hard, but hard enough to get his attention. I was definately blushing then. Also, everytime i look across the room at him he is always there looking back at me.
I am finally done. Thank You for taking time to read this.
.Deirdre Advice
This boy definitely likes you.

You should take the opportunity to ask him to hang out or go out with you.

He will answer yes I'm sure.

Good luck! George

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