Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I have a big group of friends, and for the past couple of years, I've had a big crush on one of them. He and I have a lot in common, and we get along very well.. he even told one of my girlfriends that he likes me, and some of his friends have told me the same thing. It made me very happy, but recently he's been hooking up with a lot of girls, while still going out of his way to do nice things for me. I can't stand him when he's around his friends but in private he is one of the best people I know. he's been known to do flirty things like draw little hearts by my name and tell my friends how pretty he thinks I am. BUT I also just found out that another friend of mine who I only like as a friend likes me as more. He's much more loyal than the guy I like, and I know that I should WANT the nice guy over the one who can't make up his mind, but I don't. What do I do?
Listen to your heart.
Don't choose a boy because you feel you should do it.
Try to get together with the first guy and if that doesn't work out you can try the second one.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com