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Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
i talked to my mom and she told me what her sister did. and believe me its true this can ruin the name. how can i get closer to the guy without anyone even noticing thats the main problem. yeah he is really shy. i'm afraid if i don't get close to him without anyone noticing, or else he might think i don't like him and go after other girl. what would you do if u were me. yeah believe me it is really hard to thin what.
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I'm sorry but I still don't buy the theory that talking to a boy will ruin your family name.
And, how do you expect to let him know you like him without anyone finding out. You could give him a note but then what? He might show it to friends or tell them about it. But suppose he keeps it to himself, then what? He can't talk to you or your family name will be ruined. You are in a no-win situation.
Ask your mother what you are asking me. She seems to be the one you are listening too... and that is a good thing. It is good to be able to talk with your mother.
Good luck! George
p.s. please don't ask questions more than once a week. Thanks :)
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com