I'm currently in a relationship and so is my ex but I want him back! What should I do?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I just want to appologize ahead of time incase this question is too long.
Me and my ex were together for 5 years but for the last 2 years I was very unhappy! I did everything I could to talk to him and tell him that I was very unhappy...that i wanted HIM to make me happy! Right after our 5 year anniversary I broke up with him because he still hadn't tried anything to change the fact that I was unhappy! I was trying everything in my power to make myself happy but it just wasn't working. We had 3 roommates and 2 of them were guys but were really good friends of ours! One of the guys had no place to go so I offered him a couch for a couple of days. I asked my ex if that was ok before I made the final decision and he said it was ok. Me and the guy got really close and we were really good friends!
When me and my ex split he accused me of cheating with the guy because me and the guy stayed friends! He was always at my moms (the place I moved to when me and my ex split)with me because he knew I was having a really rough time. In the mean time my ex had already started letting the girl that was pretty much jail bait for him stay at, what was our house, not even 2 days after we broke up! Alot of other people say the witnessed him with this other girl before we broke up! The other 2 roommates could vouch for me...I NEVER ONCE CHEATED ON MY EX with the roommate!
Me and the guy stayed friends and are now dating! We have been dating for about 10 months but I'm not the same! My ex and his gf are having a baby which me and him had discussed about 2 months before we split! He told me he didn't want kids then and that he wanted to wait! That hurt me more than i could have imagined because she got pregnant 1 month after we split and now I find myself wishing that we got back together but not because of there child together!
I love my bf (the roommate) but I still wish I could get back with my ex! He doesn't really seem happy with his gf and isn't the same with her as he was with me! I don't want to hurt my bf but I want my ex back and I want to try and make it work. I have no idea where to start! What should i do???
Tell your BF that you want to split up because you love your ex.
Tell your ex you want to get back together with him and work things out but at the same time you don't want to be a home-wrecker on his pregnant GF.
On the other hand, you had years to try to work things out with your ex and you never did. You stand to hurt your BF, your ex, his GF, their baby and yourself. So my advice is to think real hard before you try to do this.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com