Dating a Mom
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I am 23 and i have been dating a 20 year old mom. Things were going great for the longest time until she had a party at her house the other night. Ever since I left that night she has seemed very distant from me and never really wants to hang out. Now I know she has a 2 year old child and this could complicate things a little. I have tried asking her but she never answers many of my phone calls. When she does answer she says she is just enjoying spending time alone and with her child. Now I have never dated a woman with a child before so this is a first for me. Do you think that I have anything to be worried about I have not seen her in like a week? I am not sure where the kids dad is in this situation so I am not sure if that could be the problem! I just do not know if she still likes me and wants to be with me because it seems like she is trying to avoid me. But yet we are suppose to hang out on valentines day. Any Advice or am I just reading way to much into this and let her have her space.
If you can, have a talk with her on this subject.
Otherwise, my advice is to let things go and give her her space.
If she cancels out on Valentine's Day then you can be pretty sure that she has lost interest in you.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com