I Cant take this anymore
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
ok so me and my bf only dated for 3 months, but somehow i cant seem to get over him at all. i dont know what i did but i had dated one of his really good friends and it ended really really bad. and now i think they both hate me, i know his friend does because he tells me pretty much everyday that im a fucking whore. and the day after me and my bf broke up, both of them were and all of my friends were really surprised becuase he used to be like the nicest guy ever. i have been dealing with his friend for the past 5 or 6 months and him for just a couple of weeks but i cant take it anymore, they have pretty much convinced everyone except my really good friends to not talk to me. i cant take this anymore and its to the point where i dont wanna go to school i walk down the hallway and i wanna cry and i really need some advice on how to deal with the situation.
Talk with your best friends and tell them how sad you are that people aren't talking with you.
Ask your friends to talk with their friends and ask them to say "Hi" to you in the hallway so you don't feel so bad. Be sure to respond with a nice "Hi" and a smile.
If you continue to walk around looking sad and grumpy people are not going to talk to you so you might as well walk around smiling and saying hello to anyone you think will be nice to you.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com