Im in love with my younger long distance bestfriend!!
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I have known my bestfriend for 7 years now and he is 15 and iam almost 18 and we only meet in summer for one month each year as we live in different countries and we have different nationalities, and i used to have a crush on his brother but it wasnt serious so i dont know if this wud affect us. He used to have a girlfriend for 2 years but last summer we got so close and i felt our relationship was changing and i felt iam starting to fall in love with him and a week later he broke up with his gf without me telling him anything about my feelings. He's very sweet to me and i think he's the one!! But he's 3 years younger than me and he lives in another country so i dont know what to do, i rlly think he likes me 2, and he sent me a love song once too and i feel he likes me but maybe he's just as scared to reveal it as iam.
So should i continue having these feelings towards him and risk everything or should i just get over him as it's an impossible relationship?
You ought to tell him how you feel.
If he feels the same way, there is some hope for your relationship. It will still be an uphill battle since you have an age difference plus the distance between you and the different nationality. None of these things alone would make too much difference, but all put together makes it tough.
If he does not have strong feelings for you, my advice is to give up since you have so much working against you.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com