Chance with her???? (UPDATED)
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
I like this one girl and we been talking on the phone sometimes, and she got a BF and when she feels depressed and sad, she tell me about her problems and secert stuff even about her bf too. One time she said i wish all guys were like you and i dunno that had me thinkin.... so ya i give her 2 gifts b4 one for her bday and christmas and she felt bad cuz she didnt get me anything so ya, ya i met her at school so we just start talking and we joke around sometimes. sometimes i call her to see if she wants to hang out but she thinks im too old haha we only like 2 year apart, so ya its hard to hang out with her but i did hang out with her once, we got some coffee but her bf was there so i didnt accpet for him to come. ya i am the one that usually calls her first cuz she doesnt call me. so i be the first to call her. we talk for like 30 mins or more, sometimes we just stay on the phone and say nuthin haha but ya she a really good friend, but i wanna to be more than her friend, i really like this girl. ya im just curious about this friendship that we have
The main thing is she said we a lot in common and she tells me her problems and she said she trust me and trust her bf only. she said i wish all guys were like u. but the funny thing is sometimes i dont think she wants hang out for other wut reason, not sure wut the reason is so ya
So the question does like me? or have little tiny crush on me? do i have chance? What should i do? should i give up?
OH ya and i did tell her how i felt about her, i said i care about u and etc... and she say repect that and thank me for that, but i didnt tell her face to face, we use msging on the computer. but ya she got a bf when i told her how ill felt about her. but ya somedays when she feeling down, she talks about with me. she doesnt even trust her mom and sisters. she just trust me and her bf when we talk about serious deep problems. so i dont know if she got lil crush on me or just sees me as a friend to talk about her feelings. So ya i did told her that was depressed and told her how i feel about her that i care about her and i like her. but iono how she feel about that and she told me she repects that. so iono wut do you think? u still think she got lil crush on me?
She could have a little crush on you or not.
It's hard to tell since you are a best friend and perhaps she considers you as only a friend. As long as she has a BF, she needs to be faithful to him. Even if she has a small crush, she would not talk about it because it would be cheating on her BF.
Remain her friend, you will grow from the trust you have and if she drops her BF she will have you ready to go to.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com