how to get over her

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
first of all, thanks for reading this question.

now my girlfriend broke up with me about 4 months ago and i gotta say that the first 2 months after the breakup were the hardest of my life, she left me cuz she started to have feelings for "best friend" which by the way his name is just like mine. well even though we broke up we kinda hung out for a while, we even had sex and made out after the breakup, which made me realize that i wouldnt fight for her to be my girl again because she was cheating on her boyfriend with me, and i was afraid that she would do the same thing with me if we were together again, so now we barely talk, but for some reason when im alone or dont have anything to do im thinking about her and i just dont know how to get her out of my mind. I also have to say that i met a few chicks and when im with them or my friends, i dont think about her and i just wanted advice on how to completely forget her since i already took a huge step on deciding not to fight for her anymore since she's a cheater. i know you guys could help me out. by the way i wrote to u guys a couple of months ago asking for help on how to get her back, but now i'm asking for help on how to really forget her, i mean, i dont love her anymore is just the memories that come back, any help please? Advice
To a certain extent you are in a fortunate position.

When you are with other women you enjoy them and forget about your ex. Then when alone you think about her. Your mind is working on the problem, which is the fortunate thing. Given more time and more dates with other women, you will naturallly forget about the ex.

Good luck! George

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