Is he cheating with his ex-wife?

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I've been dating this guy for about 6 months. He is in the middle of divorce, and has 2 children, boys, 3 and 4. He takes them home to thier mother after they come to visit, and I don't always go with them. When I go with them, it's like a 20 minute round trip, but when I don't, it lasts from 45 minutes to a few hours. Am I overreacting, or is he cheating? His explaination of this is that he tucks them into bed, but they go to bed between 8 and 8:30, and someitmes he doesn't get home until 10:30. What should I think? HELP!

RomanceClass.com Advice
My advice is to stop all the worrying and suspect they are doing nothing but talking.

If the boys go to bed at 8, it's going to take them to at least 8:30 to fall asleep. Then if your boyfriend leaves there about 10 that leaves at most 1.5 hours for them to fool around according to your suspicions.

Why not think they are just talking? No doubt they have things to share about the boys and that is no doubt what they are talking about.

Good luck! George

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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