how do i make him look at me?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Ok, so I met this guy last year in my class...PE to be exact. his name was Josh. I thought he was really cute cuz he was one of those white-asians, just like me. But i was too shy to talk to him, whenever we played soccer i tried my best (cause he was really good) and all that stuff...anyway, well, I finally decided to add him to my myspace, and there i found out he was also from south korea, just like me. In the city we live its really hard to find korean people, not only that but he was SO cute. ok. well. I never actually talked to him in real life, it was all on aim, and it was just-friends type thing. one day we got in some argument...not really fight, where he was saying (not really saying, more hinting) that i was a "loser" because i wasnt in any sports and he was only in pe because he broke his arm. (which was true to some extent..) well, i never talked to him again cuz i got mad, i dont know about him, later i got over it. thanks to him (mostly other things that happened in my life, but i would say it was 20% him) i changed many things about myself, i changed the way i dress, my friends, and now im more confident about myself...i also joined a sport..hehe.. but yeah i thought i was over him until i found out my cousins had joined the same soccer school he had joined. So i HAD to go to every game!! just to see him, except he didn't know that, he thought i was there because of my cousins (at least thats what i want to believe) and now my parents are starting to b friends with his parents..and i met them yesterday, and they said i was "really nice and pretty".. SO. The problem is that Im..i guess, not obsessed with him, but more like i feel the same way you would feel about a movie star, but i wanna actually talk to him now. I know im not as shy as i used to be, but what happens is that i dont know what to say to him, or how to approach him without it being akward. (He already thought i liked him in the first place and was kind of cocky about it, but that was my fault for being so obvious) but i wanna show him the "true me" cuz im not the same person he talked to before. Can you help me?? what should i say to him?? i REALLY want to talk to him..
First you should read our tips on how to flirt:
Then you should read our tips on "what to talk about."
These should help you a lot! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com