Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
hi! its me again. god, i have a lot 2 say. ok, she is STILL very shy, last friday she told me she was sorry 4 being shy and i told her it was ok. i tried 2 ask her out 4 a walk but shes still bussy. shes like NEVER free! do you think it is because her parents wont let her? and if so, what do i do about it? and her friend is getting all pissed off @ me 4 not talking 2 her. im gonna try my hardest 2marrow 2 talk 2 her and get 2 know her the most with confidence, its just that she has NEVER asked me a single question! what do i do?!?!?!?!
She will bless you if you can help her with her shyness.
Shyness is a very, very tough thing to deal with and can be a life-long problem if it is not nipped in the bud.
Keep talking with her, don't worry if she doesn't ask questions. You are looking for an exchange of ideas, a sharing of feelings, and an expression of affection. You should smile a lot at her, compliment her and give her some hugs. Ask her if it is ok to hug her so she won't be taken by surprise.
Don't give up on this. You could do her a lot of good if you are patient.
Keep asking her to do things and ask her if her parents allow her to go out.
Good luck! George
-- from George
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