Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
There is a girl that I really admire. Last year, I had the opportunity to see her once a week. During this time, I grew close to her in about 10 monthes. I believe that she grew close to me as well. But we both didn't show our feelings as much as we should have. However, I cannot see her once a week anymore due to certain circumstances. I cannot see her often. I see her only sometimes. We used to be close, but now, it seems like we are distant. But couple monthes ago, I tried to talk to her online, but it seems like she turned a little bit cold towards me. Is it because she is shy? Should I talk to her in person? Does she like someone else? Lately, I have been stressed out. Should I forget her? Should I keep trying? Should I ask her if she has time to hang out and talk with me? Am I too young to think like this? This person is special and I don't want to lose her to anyone else, but then again, I don't know if I am the right person for her.
I would be very grateful if you helped me.
If you can call her on the phone do it.
Ask her if she can hang out with you some. If she says yes then you are on the trail to a potentially good relationship.
If she says no then chalk it up to experience and look for someone new.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com