should I tell her?
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
i have a crush on my best friend. i want to tell her how i feel, but i don't want to ruin are friendship. plus she's got a boyfriend who she can't stand to be without. and maybe i'm missing something, but she seems to have more fun with me anyway. i get kinda depressed when i seem them together and when she notices she thinks it's her fault. In the end i just want her to be happy, but it's not like i can ignore my own feelings. what should i do?
It's not unusual to have a crush on your best friend.
Unfortunately she has a boyfriend which means you have to keep your hands off. Continue being her best friend and you will not only enjoy your relationship, but if she ever breaks up with her b/f then you will be there waiting. Meanwhile, you could say to her that you are "developing feelings" for her but don't want to disturb her relationship with her b/f.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com