should i stay or should i go
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Met my boyfreind young i was 14 he was 17.Good at first till he cheated with a few girls.I forgived him but couldnt let it go so i cheated to childish i know but i was young. He forgived me.A little bit further in to the relashionship i got pregnant with his baby it was not planned.I decided to keep the baby.As i was pregnant he got addited to drugs so i left him.A year later we met up he had got off the drugs and still loved me so we got back together.But now 5 years on we are all ways arguing about everything he thinks im cheating i think he is.Its even about silly things like bringing in the bins.Its hard to get a day with out a argument its been like this for a while.We dont seem to spend time together any more or hug,hold hands ect.We live together with our child and we know its not good for the child.We have tried to go our separate ways but every time we try we just end up in tears and we cant do it.We do love each other very much more then we know sometimes.Should we walk away im 20 now and he is 23 should i try to forget about him or is there more i can do?I dont understand how you can love some one so much and it not work.
What you should do is go to a professional counselor.
This person can help you with all sorts of problems.
It sounds like you and your husband should try to keep your relationship going since you both love each other.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com