I love her but i doubt it
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
Ok ive known this girl for like 3 years and I just got the guts to ask her out. I know I love her but sometimes I doubt it I asked her out before we got out for christmas break and i havent had to interac with her at school ive seen her twice during the 2 weeks and ive meet her parents. The thing is were total opposties shes very outgoing and im kinda reserved, im considered a nerd and she has alot of friends, the thing that gets me the most is her friends there the ones that call me a nerd and even her parents say im not the type she usally goes for. Now im future Navy SEALs so I could care less what other people think about me i wont know alot of them in 4 years anyway. What im conserned about is her i only want her to be happy i dont want her friends raggin on her, also she has confided in me about her boyfriends and other things before i was goin out with her she keept sayin they were gettin boring, I worry that shes sayin that to someone else about me. Shes my first girl friend and shes had tons of boyfriends so I dont know what the hell im doin and she does ive held her even kissed her but I still feel weird about how i should interact with her at school when we go back and shes tryin to get me to be friends with her friends the people that classified me a nerd and made my life a living hell. I quess what im asking is should i stay with her and end the confussion or stick with it and make her as happy as possible and maybe give me a couple of tips on how to interact with her at school and with her friends
It would be good if you could talk with your g/f and ask her advice.
Explain to her what you said here. Especially find out from her what she thinkg the best way to become friends with her friends. Maybe she could stand up for you if they aren't nice to you.
Ask her if she is doing ok with any ragging that is going on. My guess is that she is handling it just fine. Keep smiling is good advice.
Good luck! George
-- from George
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