what should i do?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
i was with my ex for two years and we started going out when i was 17 and i got pregnant two months later after that we moved in together and got ingaged and lived on our own for over a year at first it was great but then he started talking to a guy he went to school with and he would go to his house all the time after work and not spend time with me and our daughter so i left but the next day i knew i messed up so i went to him and told him how sorry i was but he told me it was too late its been 8 months now and i still miss him and cry all time he used to not want to talk to me but lately he wants to and he keeps me on the phone for a long time and he started hugging me again how can i get him back
A good thing you have going for you is your daughter.
Assuming he loves her, he is dependent on you to see her.
Here is what to try to get him back:
Take good care of yourself physically, intellectually, and emotionally. He will be drawn by those good characteristics.
Finally, communicate with him (share information), be compassionate with him (share feelings gently), and be affectionate to him (hugs, compliments).
Invite him over for a home cooked meal now and then.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com