ok...this is strangeVisitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Ive spent the last couple of weeks with that girl trying to get her comfortable around me. In a few ways ive succeeded.She has no problem being clost to me physically or spending time with me or letting me give her kisses on the cheek but she still is quiet. Im not gonna make big moves and scare her off.She knows i think she is special thats the only thing i have said.Tho she isnt one to take her self seriously. She is a bit critcal of herself. Ive been told by friends never to underestimate the power of a kiss to sweep her off her feet but i dont think this is best. So what can i do while i keep spending time with her to get her to open up a little and relax. Oh and whats this say about her: last guy she sort of dated, they kissed and danced and stuff, but when she asked him "are we going out he said no". Does she not know when ppl are a couple and when they arent? What does this say about her? It confuses me.
Here are three good ways to build a stronger relationship:
Communications: share information with her;
Compassion: share feelings with her;
Affection: hugs, kisses, compliments, etc.
See if you can get her laughing. This is a great way to reduce tensions.
Regarding her ex... it is difficult to answer your question since we don't know how their relationship was developed.
Happy Holidays! George
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