She said she liked me, but she was going out with a friend, im not sure if thats so anymore
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Ok, first off, im bi (and 15), and i went out with this girl *trisha. We went out for 3 weeks, and we really liked eachother. we broke up because we didnt see eachother enough. i was sort of in denile, and convinced myself that i didnt like her anymore, and i was going to be fine. When i found out she was going out with another one of my friends i reolized how much i missed her. But yet again, i ignored it and blew it off. Until about 2 weeks ago when she told me that she still misses me. I told her i still missed her too, and that friday she spent the night, and we fooled around a whole bunch. Afterwords i regreted it a whole bunch, considering she was still going out with *stacy. But now *trisha is sort of ignoring me, and not hugging me as much as normal, and im getting the impression she is really not interested anymore, even though she has broke up with *stacy.
Now im sort of confused, because im not actually sure if shes just doing that...because? or because shes trying to get me not to like her anymore.
The thing is, i cant decide if i still do like her, or if its one of those times where i just blow it off again? I think i might just be telling myself im over it, im done, im fine, just so i dont miss her as much.
Do you have any advise to what i should do?
It would be better to stop analyzing this so much.
Wait and see what develops. It seems you can deal with the outcome, whatever it may be. You are just stressing yourself by worrying over it so much.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com