low desire and comfort
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I am one of those girls guys write about with having low desire. My guy and I have been together a few years and had a great sex life in the beginning, but within the last year or so I've noticed I don't enjoy being touched certain places anymore majority of the time, it's actually a turn-off... I don't know what to do to feel comfortable and "in the mood", I love him very much and this is really hurting our relationship. Please help!
Talk with him about it.
Be open and to the point (but gentle). Tell him you've noticed that your response to some things that used to be good are no longer working.
Tell him what is pleasing to you, and if on occasion you feel open to something then give him clues to let him know you feel like that activity again that night.
After telling him you will probably discover that you enjoy sex more than you did before.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com