more than friends

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
I have known this girl for about a year now, it all started off with a crush i had on her, she did not have those feelings back than but now we have gotten very close, and i had gotten over her and have had two girlfriends since than. We have gotten really close and i feel very comfortable and natural around her and i have started to have feelings for her again, we hang out alot, and we can get very close, in both senses. We share secrets and can talk about anything, i dont want to lose her freindship or give her the wrong idea i really dont think just coming out and telling her would help, it would scare he, but how do i gradually open up to her? Advice
Tell her you are developing feelings for her.

Wait and see what she says and if she needs time, give her a day (that should be plenty of time since that's all she will be thinking about.)

Make sure she knows that her friendship is very important to you and you don't want to upset her by telling her about your developing feelings.

Good luck! George

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