how can i tell her we're both really shy
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
hey i wanted to know how i can tell the girl i really have a crush on even though im really shy usually and she is too. I want to get closer to her before i ask her out and i really need a way to kinda tell her that i lik her withougt just coming out with it in any way shape or form you know. Im a guy, shes a girl.
This isn't going to happen overnight since you are both shy.
Here's what you should do: whenever you pass her in the hallway, greet her by looking her in the eyes, saying in a clear voice "Hi" plus her name, and giving her a big smile. The more you do it the less shy you two will be and eventually you will be having conversations which can lead to friendship.
Once you feel comfortable with her you can then ask her out.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com