Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Hi, I've gone out with quite a few different girls latley. I think we've always had fun on the dates, but it definitely felt like there was something lacking. It never felt really exciting, just like a meeting with someone you knew rather than a date. I guess it could just be that I've not been with the right people, but I don't know about that. I think that I'm causing the dates to just be bland. I looked all over the site here for any kind of tip that might help but I came up with nothing. The only promising things were just like joke advice when you read it, I don't know what to do to make my dates eciting, . I guess I want to know what I can do to make things turn out better and so that maybe either one of us would be interested in a second date.
There are three things that are important to a good relationship.
Communication: sharing information
Compassion: sharing feelings
Affection: this could be as simple as laughing at jokes, complimenting her hair, etc.
Try to make sure you include each of these things in your dates and you will probably have a more exciting time.
Or it may be you just haven't met the right person yet.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com