this girl is the love of my life she only makes me happy nobody else
Visitor's Question from a 41-50 year old Male
i recently broke up with my ex i was with her for 3yrs we lived together for about 2yrs we had our ups and downs but 1 day she made me very angry coz i got sick of her coming home and complaning about me what have i done today the house is messy, i said maybe u should move out she agreed thats was all ok but during that time she was still living with me i said thats it i wont to break up i cant stand u no more well we broke up but later she started hanging out with me again during these 3 weeks we still slept together she said maybe we should be bf gf i wasnt thinking at the time then later on during these weeks i told her i want to get back with her but she turned me down i was so upset and very angry so i did something that she thought i would never ever do something she thought she could trust me with a secret anyway once i did that apparently that night a mate of hers a guy gave her comfort over the phone 1 week later they became bf gf :( i now regret everything i have done and i really want her back i love her so much i dont get to really talk with her much now coz she ignores my calls most of the time or lies and says shes busy when shes not since then and now i have been in a bad state crying to her and stuff just last night i tld her i really need her back but she said when she was with me she felt like she had no friends i dont understand she now says im not a reliable person and she cant forgive me and she doesnt see a future with me and shes saying that now she just wants a casual relationship which is currently wat she says shes having with her new bf he is her classmate too he studies with her, she said she likes to study and since im not studying she said this is another reason not to be with me she said maybe later on if u change and prove yourself to yourself things maybe different later on but dont get your hopes up!!!
You screwed up, as you know.
You should take her at her word and have a casual relationship with her. Rebuild her trust and see what happens.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com