What will it takeVisitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Alright heres the low down. Ive played sports competed performed infront of large crowds AND when it comes to girls im generally very polite funny and smooth. BUT NOT IN THE CLUB SCENE. This is starting to get to me. Clubs are a great way to go meet people and have fun but since i cant "fast" dance or have the confidence to i generally dont have too much fun. Im at college parties like this are supposed to be fun. I can be confident everywhere else besides at club dance floors. I wish there were clubs close enough to my house so i could get a DD who WASNT ME so i could drink to loosen up. But seeing as that will be hard regarding that i live 30 mins away and i can drink anything with my license im stuck here. What are somethings i could do besides drinking to relax me enough to just go for it. Cuz honestly im starting to get frustrated.I dont have a gf and i dont have a girl who can show me how.
It definitely is easier to get loosened up by drinking first.
But that isn't going to happen for you.
Since you are so smooth with girls in general just announce in a group of them that you need to learn to dance. You will have a flock of girls offering to help you. See if somebody has a house where several of you could go and you could learn to dance.
One thing to know is that most of dancing is in the hips... not the feet or hands. Get them to show you how to move your hips, then feet, then hands. You have to also consider the music but that should be a snap for you because you have a natural athletic rhythm. Bend your knees too just like sports. Stay low. Do a search on the internet for "how to dance" here is one that looks interesting: http://www.pfunkonline.com/
Good luck! George
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