what do i do?

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
well theres this guy that i relly like i dont think you would call it like more like love and the thing is he doesnt wanna go out wit me because he doesnt wanna be seen with me in public what do i do do i just move on to someone else or just keep trying please help what can i do for him to notice me more?

RomanceClass.com Advice
First you should ask him why he doesn't want to be seen in public with him.

Is he shy? Is he embarrassed by you?

How to be noticed by him is a combination of things. Communicate with him often, share feelings with him, and be affectionate (nice words, compliments, and hugs.) Then concentrate on yourself and try to improve. Things to work on are looks, smarts, athleticism, and being a fun person.

Looks: how you dress, your hair, your smell, etc.
Smarts: get good grades, keep up on world news, etc.
Athleticism: play sports or at least go to games.
Fun: laugh and smile a lot, be enthusiastic.

Even if you improve and he still isn't interested somebody else will.

Good luck! George

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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