What do I do?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Me and my ex were together for 4 years and we have a son. He broke it off for no reoson. He came back, but I got scared he was gonna dump me again, so I told him that.
3 Days later he had someone new. She is fun and don't have any responsibility, that makes it hard cause he is having a good time with her.But I know she is just the rebound. I want him back, not just for me but for our son.
I love him, but is love enough? How do I make him see he belongs with us and not this new girl? He shuts me out and does not want to speak to me about anything but our son. How do I get him back?
Tell your ex that it is going to be very difficult for your son to be apart from his father.
And, if he doesn't come back, that you will have to find a new father for his son. Tell him that you would prefer that he come back to you but that is his choice.
Just lay it out on the line for him. Either he comes back or he will be seeing less of his son. It's not a threat but just a fact of life.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com