too shy to talk to her

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
I've been in love with this girl for about 4 years now, and I have never realy talked to her. Lately iv got the impression that she's interested in me, but she still doesn't talk to me. every time we make eye contact we both just look away. I'm way to shy to just go and talk to her, I've never realy talked to anyone without feeling awkward. what should I do? Advice
The last time you wrote, I told you what to do... here it is again.

Whenever you pass near her look her straight in the eyes, and say in a clear voice "Hi" plus her name, and give her a big smile. Practice this in the mirror so your body gets used to it... just like in sports.

She will say hi to you and then you can start asking her how things are going.

Meanwhile, get your act together. Dress nicely, take care of your grooming... hair, teeth, breath, etc., lift some weights, join some clubs, sports team, whatever. If you don't like contact sports try volleyball. Ask your coaches in PE.

There is no great mystery about this. Girls want to date and have boyfriends probably more than guys do so just give it a try.

Good luck! George

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