So we are just friends now
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Here is my situation. Myself and 4 of my friends come to my house for a football game. 2 of the girls that came up bring 1 friend each. Me and one of their friends, JaneX, hit it off. We slept in the same bed, nothing happened, we spent the entire weekend together and it was great. We hang out Monday night and our conversation more or less goes that she wants to be just friends because her life isn't in order. She just got discharged from the army and is moving an hour or so away for school.
My question is, should I just remain friends with this woman and see where things go, or should I attempt to push the issue and try to win her over. She already thinks I'm amazing just from the weekend we spent together.
If you push it, you run the risk of chasing her out of your life.
Stay friends with her and work on her slowly. If something is meant to be, it will happen sooner or later.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com