I am really confused!!
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
So a new guy came to school this year (sth grade) and on the first few days of school he seemed like he was really flirting with me! We would look at eachother from across the room and then playfully fight over who started it. We talked a lot during class and lunch. He has a lot of peoples' phone numbers in the class but he never asked me mine. So one day this boy tried to guess who I liked right in front of my crush. He finally guessed the right guy and i told him yes. So the boy said, "Hey, she likes you!" so he looked at me and mumbled something like "why so soon?" and the bell rang so he walked away. My best friend and I decided to ask him if he liked me and we finally got him to come over to us and talk. We asked him and he hesitated. He said he didn't want to be mean or hurt my feelings. I told him it was okay and he said he didn't like me back because he didn't know me well enough yet. He said we would still be friends though. The days went on and we still talked to eachother and looked at eachother but people found out what happened. Girls would come up and honestly be curious if we were going out. We said no and tried to leave it at that. He started wearing a bracelet that his friend gave him and people would ask if I made it for him. I was really embarrassed and i answered no. Today, we some how got into the subject of truth or dare and some girls dared him to do things like kiss me, ask me out, ect. Later, we were talking and he was pretending we were "together" and said "you know what? its over!".
People always ask him why he doesnt like me. They tell me that we should go out. I tell them how much i would like to but how much he has hinted that we are "just frineds". Everyone thinks he likes me including me.
I want him but he supposedly doesnt want me. No one can figure out why he says he doesnt have feelings for me even though I am the only girl he treats this way.
It's time to back away from him.
He has made it clear that he isn't ready for a relationship with you. So why spend your time and emotions working on him? Leaving him alone will make you seem more attractive to him in this case.
If this approach doesn't work out, you can take a more direct approach with him and try to get him that way.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com