I broke up mu long term relationship and i regret it
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I have been going out with my ex for more than 5 years but for the last year and a half I wasn't sure about the relationship and kept breaking up with and then getting back together. Three months ago I broke up again and now I really regret it because he is finding the way to live his life apart from me, although he says he knows Im the one, he thinks that we have to see this in a more mature rational way. I know he is right and I want some advice on how I can get back with him back the right way. Now Im sure of what I want but I too dont want to rush things.
I want to live my own life but I dont want to push him away, I want him to know that im there but without scaring him away.
Well, thank you
When two people are mutually attracted, as you two are, it is time to become friends.
Work to get back to that relatiionship and then talk, talk, talk, share feelings to build back the trust, and be as affectionate as is appropriate. Affection includes simple things like compliments or even thank you's.
Good luck to both of you! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com