The Secret Code of Dating a Woman

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I was wondering if you were to take a woman out you have liked for a while, what are some good do's and don'ts that you should follow? Should you play slow romantic music for her and compliment her a lot or play it cool? Is a poem okay or not advised? Help me out, I really don't wanna blow this!! Advice
You act as if there is some secret code that ALL women follow and that there are things that are right for all of us!! That is HARDLY the case. Just about anything I could suggest, one block of women would love it and another block would hate it. The whole point of dating someone is getting to know what SHE as a truly INDIVIDUAL person really wants and cares about and likes. Only you should know that! So you are the person who would know what she enjoys and what she doesn't enjoy.

So figure out what SHE really likes, and then do it with her. The more you can show her that you care about HER and listen to what she says, instead of just treating her like "one of those millions of women out there", the more she'll appreciate it.

-- from Jenn
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