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Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
i have been sleeping with a man who says he doesnt know what he wants. he says we are friends. we also had a baby together,but he isnt committing to me at all. I have no idea how he feels about me. I love him.Normally does a man have sex with a women for a year if he didnt care about her and wasnt attracted to her or even in love with her? or does he probably care?

RomanceClass.com Advice
You would think that after all this time and having the baby that he would have strong feelings towards you.

For your own sense of well being, you should set a date in your mind for when you are going to tell him to put up or shut up. It might be a month from now, six months from now, or a year from now. But you need to have closure at some point.

You might even tell him now that at some point you want closure-- either a commitment on his part or a parting of the ways. You deserve this and not to be held dangling indefinetely.

Good luck! George

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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