fire up affection?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Over the summer me and a guy that i had liked breifly during the school year hung out a lot and had alot of fun together. However at the time i was having mixed feelings about a different guy that i had, had a breif "fling" with. I sort of liked the first guy though. After a few weeks of school his twin brother informed me that he liked me and i was happy to know that but wasnt sure if i felt the same because i was still interested in boy number 2. After a couple more weeks and after finding out boy 2 only liked me as a friend i decided to pursue boy 1. One of my best friends who was visiting from alabama who was also friends with boy 1 told me that he liked me but was "giving up" because he didnt think that i shared teh same feelings. So i started to show a little more interest in him but the weekend after i found out this info. i had to go out of town so i didnt get a chance to hang out with him. But my friends asked himif he still liked me and he said he still sort of liked me but he was interested in another girl as well (not to mention he didnt even know her last name) my friend told him however that i liked him back, she said that he sounded surprised and she then asked him if he liked me and he said yes. However at school he started to sort of avoid me but i have seen him talking to the girl that he likes also. But then this weekend we hung out and he kept staring at me and being flirtacious. I think he's confused about the whole situation so i'm willing to give him time to figure out his feelings, but the advice i really need is am i wasting my time or should i wait and see if we can bring back our attraction/ is that even possible? and if i should wait what are some good tips for bringing back the attraction? also is it okay to talk about the situation with his brother?
To bring back the attraction, be fun and flirtaceous with him.
He will respond to your affection with his own affection and you will grown back together. Have talks with him, share your feelings, and be affectionate... those are the keys to getting his attraction.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com