why is she like this and what can i do to chage the way she thinks?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
There is this one girl I like and we went to school with each other and i would like to be freinds and maybe go out with her one day, but there is a problem. iam too nervious to talk 2 her in person, but i have talk to her over the internet. when i was a junior in high school i wrote a note to her and one of the notes i acually ask her out (I regret doing that) i've tried to talk to her online, but she don't want anyhting to do with me and she called me a "stalker" (which i am not) i also think its cause of my looks but i can't get her to tell me. she base that word on that we had class together, we had different classes but they were on the same hallway, and we had the same lunch, and all of this happen two years straight and we saw each other all the time, i did notice that she would always look/stare at me while we were around and i look back at her and i just go on with my day and because we saw each other all the time she calles me a "stalker". i've told her that i wasn't and try to explain it to her that i wasn't and that i had nothing to do on how the counsolers choosed our classes and now she don't talk to me, when ever i see her in public she still thinks i am "stalking" her. one of her freinds don't like me for some reason she makes jokes and ugly comments about me, but the girl i like didn't say anyhting but she did laugh but i don't say anyhting back but i am very good freinds with another one of her freinds and she tried to talk 2 her about me, but she won't listen to her. i want to talk to the girl that i like and the only way i can talk to her is over the internet because i rarely see in public, and i don't have her number so i can't call her. she is currently a junior in high school and i am a freshman in college, our age is 2 years apart. all i want is to talk to her and try to become freinds with her or at least make things better between us, but i don't know what to do? what is the best thing i can do?
Face it, you have had plenty of chances with this girl and they didn't work out.
It's time to move on and find another girl who might like you, talk to you, and not call you a stalker. You are just causing yourself grief by pushing to have a relationship with this one girl.
There are thousands of girls out there in your age group. Take a look around and you will be amazed at what you see. And many, many of them are looking for a boyfriend to keep them happy.
Stop obsessing over this one girl... it is doing you no good at all.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com