How do i Know when?

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male

I'm 17 and been going out with a girl for 10 months, but we have never been sexually intimate. We talked about it and found out that we both want it, its just that first step. She says "when it happens it happens", but how do i know when she wants to or not? I feel it gonna be awkward when we haven't done anything for such a long time.

Any help would be cool.

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You need to take the first step.

Tell her what you want to do and if she doesn't object then go ahead.

You will know if she isn't ready when she says NO.

She's probably waiting around for you to get the ball rolling.

Good luck! George

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