I want her back shes my soulmate
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Ive been with this woman for almost 1 yr 1/2 and we just recently had a baby boy who is now 3 months old. but up until recently our happy relationship got really unhappy not for me but for her. We were also roomed up with her mother and 2 other roommates man and woman. my fiance was good friends with the male roommate of ours. she ended up wanting to end our relationship because she was gettin strong feelings for my roomate. i was crushed to hear this and for the longest time she always told me she could never see herself with this man. after the many nights of crying and tryin to fix things with my finace we ended seperating and she ended up with my roommate over night. I cant quite understand why this happened but ive given up so much for her i have no family where i live at now nor do i have any close personal friends except my fiance and her mother. its been 6 weeks now since our seperation and its killing me not being able to see my son or her. i get my son every week once for an over night stay but i cant keep this up i really truely cant be a single father and watch my son grow from afar. how can i get her back? we were so much in love and i still believe we are but i havnt spoken to her nor will she open up to me, all i get is cold answers and that my questions are meaningless. what can i do?
There's not much you can do at this point. She is too wrapped up in herself to listen to you. She is also filled with guilt.
Time is probably the thing that is on your side. She may get tired of this new guy and come back to you. Keep good relations with her and be as pleasant as possible and don't discuss your relationship.
Live your life as if it is over, because right now it is. Don't give up seeing your boy because that is your link with her.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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