still seeing my ex
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
we broke up after being together over two years.....it is always about the age difference..iam much older...but after a few days he always misses me....this time he still wants me as a friend and more...but still is holding back when i ask if we can be boyfriend and girfriend again....this has been going on over a month....seeing each other twice a week..we both are not seeing anyone else....how do i get him back.....i know i havent really left but i want him to say we are...back together
Ask him over for his favorite home cooked meal, with wine, candles and etc.
If you can't do that, ask him out to a nice restaurant.
Take the opportunity to remind him of the good times you have had together and that it would be a shame to be in a position where you couldn't look forward to them anymore. Tell him you still love him and that he could make you very happy if he would agree to be bf/gf again.
Hopefully he will be in the mood to grant your request and you can be happy again.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com