Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Last six months, I was a student exchange living in America. I was there for 3 months and came back home then. When I was there, I liked one American guy and told him that I like him. However, there was only 1 month left for knowing each other. I didn't care about that and started this relationship. We keep in touch via MSN. Although, we don't have much free time, we talk to each other about 2-3 times a week. But, you know he masturbated while he was talking to me and told me about that. In my Asian culture, it's kind of..unacceptable. I felt bad at first. He told me that it's so normal for his culture. I think I would try to accept that if it's normal like he said. I'm so confused if I should keep in touch with him. Thanks for helping me..
I wouldn't call it "so normal" but it certainly isn't unusual, particularly in long distance romances.
If you are uncomfortable with this tell him to stop it.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com