Will sex help bring them back?
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
My husband and I are currently separated. I cheated on him, so he has moved on and has a new girlfriend. We are talking about getting divorced. The thing is we are still having sex. I don't know if I should be having sex with him or not. I do want him back, but he has a girlfriend. I do know that they have not had sex yet. Will having sex with my husband who has a girlfriend help bring him back to me?
I think having sex with him will improve your chances of getting him back.
It will make him remember the comfortable old days when everything was ok.
It may help heal his anger at you for cheating. In fact, if he does have sex with his girlfriend he may consider that "getting even" with you and once he does that he will probably feel more comfortable about getting back with you.
Hoever, another argument is also fairly strong. And that is to leave him with his girlfriend and if he gets no sex at all he will be more likely to come back to you.
Take your pick.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com