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Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Iv been wit dis guy 4 abt 3 mnths, & frm da onset he was different unlike da usual guys i go 4.
At da begining things were gr8 in everyway, and da fact dat i liked him alot was a shock 2 me let alone every1 else cuz were so different.
He was soooo into me making plans abt wat we shod do mnths ahead, which made me uncomfable cuz im not in2 long term but i also liked it.
Then he wnt 2 europe 4 a month and since he's been back thngs have changed we fight all da time now and last week we nearly ended it all.
We got bak 2getha but i feel like hes not paying enought attention 2 me we havnt even been intimate yet,
and yesterday he had a party @ his house i got really really drunk and was sick all nite.
Apparently i sid how i wnted 2 sleep wit dis other guy that has been after me 4 months, thought i can honstly say i dont remember saying dat, and if i did it was out of my frustration 4 being ignore which no guy eva does 2 me let alone my bf should be doing.
We had anther fight he sid how he's had enough and cnt take anymore and where so different who r we kidding i'll neva wrk.
I dnt blame him at all i hve put him thru alot.
But he doesnt see how much i care abt him and always says i wnt other ppl, which isnt true @ all, if i wnted any1 else i wodnt be wit him @ all!
I never run after any1 and i really have made a big effort in trying 2 fix things but maybe i shoud just let it go, but da thing is i neva let ppl in im very stuborn, afraid of getting hurt, i knw he must care abt me and i diffentaly care abt him,
Wat can i do 2 make him see dat i really like him alot iv neva cried ova some1 dis much,
Wat shod i do let go or try and make him change his mind.
Give it another few weeks.
If he hasn't come around by then you should let him go.
Otherwise you will be back together and having fun again.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com