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My bf is talking to his ex



Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Hey , I have been seeing my bf for 5 months now... we are getting pretty serious i guess you could say.. but we are still young I'm turning 18 soon and he is turning 20. I love him with all my heart and he does the same for me ( at least I think he does) Well the other day I was looking online on myspace.. his ex gf has a myspace so i thought i would jsut check it out.. so i was looking on it and i saw that she had wrote something about her ex.. and her ex is my bf.it said how much she missed him and how much she loves him and would do anything to get him back.. it also said that she called him the other night and left a messege.. and it also said that he called her back.. and she posted the conversation.. so i know what was said.. nothing bad just a hey how you doing kinda convo... but still the thing is he called her and told me nothing.. he thought that i would never find out... he said that he didnt want to tell me because he didnt want to make me mad or upset.. but i told him that by not telling me your jsut making it worse.. you shouldnt hide anything from me... i asked him if he still had feelings for this ex.. and he said yes.... i dont get it.. see heres the thing they only went out for like 2 1/2 months and she cheated on him and broke up with him.. their relationship wasnt even that serious... i dont get how he can say that he loves me with his whole heart and then say that he still has feelings for his ex... who apparently wants him back... then i asked him to call her in front of me and tell her that he doesnt want her back he wants me and not her... and loves me.. he said he already talked to her last night and handled it.... so i went online and asked if he talked to her.and she said no so he is lying agian what should i do? i'm between a rock and a hard place!!!!!




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First of all, don't believe his ex.

She is trying to split you up.

And be happy that he told you he still has feelings for her... he is being honest with you and you shouldn't be threatened by. Tell him you are glad he told you and you appreciate his honesty.

Don't try to make him call her up in your presence. This is controlling behavior and will turn him off.

Keep communicating with him.

Good luck! George

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