what should i do?...I am in love with my best friend.

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
im in love with my best friend. im 18 years old and hes 20. we have slept together but never kissed. i know it sounds strange, but kissing to him is a commitment so by not kissing me we are not 'together', just friends. One of his best friends fancies me a lot, and I think this might be why he wont show any emotion towards me as he would feel guilty. However if this isnt the case i am being used by him for sex and other things. Therefore i dont want it to happen. But i love him so much and it is the only time i am physically close to him, so i like it for that. What should i do, it upsets me so much. Thank you for taking your time to answer this.

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He is using you and you are using him.

It appears that he wants sex from you and you want nearness from him.

You may love hime but it doesn't seem he loves you so things are unequal. You should have a long, deep conversation with him and honestly build up trust. And don't give up the affection because that is one thing that draws you together. These things should improve your relationship.

Good luck! George

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